Thursday 1st – Sunday 6th

Having arrived in Hoi An my original plan was to eat at the hotel then begin exploring tomorrow. Unfortunately there was no restaurant at the hotel, so I decided to walk into the old town for some food. 

Hoi An Od Town is another UNESCO World Heritage Site. I can understand why, it’s beautiful. 

The Old Town is built alongside the river, Thu Bõn River, at night there are beautiful small boats all lit up with lanterns gliding along the river, all the stores have lanterns, it’s so colourful and pretty. 

I was a little knackered so stopped at one of the first restaurants I came to, which was a Pho & Noddle place. I then had my first Pho! 

For those that don’t know this is a traditional Vietnamese dish of rice noddles, meat or seafood in a delicious broth. I opted for a chicken Pho. It was lovely, the broth is very thin but super tasty. 

My plan was to then head back, but I ended up walking almost through the entire Old Town! 

It’s very busy in Hoi An in the evening, lots of tours come in from Da Nang to see the beautiful lantern boats and float candles in the river. 

I eventually headed back and got a good nights sleep. 

I have breakfast included in my hotel and it’s a small affair but tasty and in this family run hotel everyone is so friendly and helpful. 

I need to go to a ATM today, which I hate doing, I’m always convinced the machine is going to take my card! It’s also tricky as the currency is in big denominations, so I’m always panicking about exactly how many zeros are in a million? 😳😂

I find a machine and manage to successfully withdraw the required amount!!  I then buy a ticket for the Old Town. The ticket is really cheap but it then allows you to enter all the historical sites within the Old Town, the money goes towards the upkeep and restoration of the site. 

The Old Town is very different in the mornings, not as many people, more locals going about their day. It is still gorgeous, the lanterns and flowers everywhere are stunning. 

Hoi An is known for its tailors, so lots of people get bespoke clothing made here, they also have lots of leather shops with more bespoke services. The leather work looks fabulous, so many cowboy boots in every conceivable colour, bags in all colours and designs! 😍 I am seriously tempted, but I simply don’t have capacity for anything else. (Let’s see if this remains the case over the coming 4 days!) 

There are street vendors everywhere, selling beautiful 3d cards, bookmarks, fridge magnets, also ladies selling cones of coconut biscuits, peanuts & crystallised ginger. Although they are keen to sell but they aren’t too pushy. 

I end up seeing the same lady a few times and promise if I see her again I’ll buy something.

I do try the biscuits and ginger, which is great  but the ginger is strong! 

I have a look around the Old covered Japanese Bridge, and some of the other historical sites.  But mostly I just ambled around looking at everything.

I walked back along the river which is a much prettier and quieter than the road! 

It’s hot & humid here so I cool off in the pool, which is nice and cold! 

A couple from Canada, the Yukon, are also in the pool and we get chatting. Evi & Donald are great. 

I’m going to to walk back into the Old Town for dinner as I’ve seen a place that Tracey & Jaques have recommended, called ‘Morning Glory’ it’s an old, well established Vietnamese restaurant with fabulous reviews! 

Just before dinner I stop for a cheeky cocktail in a bar above the Old Market, another recommendation from Tracey & Jaques! It’s has great views across the river. The cocktail I choose is a rum based one, they focus on Gin mostly. It’s pinkish and looks sweet, but isn’t and is delicious! 

I am super impressed to see that it arrives with some very fancy ‘Bally Ice’ which is even more fancy as it’s got flowers in! Shabazz would be so proud! I’m definitely not a ‘Povo’ 😂😂 (you need to check out Shabazz 

on Instagram, very funny!) 

Morning Glory lives up to its reviews, fast efficient, friendly service and delicious food. I opted for Hoi A Chicken Rice, which is pretty much what it says, Chicken, Rice, herbs and a side of yummy broth. It was light and so flavourful. The atmosphere inside is also great, really buzzy. 

I head back after dinner along the river, which is quiet but not deserted so feels safe. 

I think so far Hoi An has been fantastic. Easy to navigate on foot, pretty, colourful, easy to get great Vietnamese food, culturally and historically interesting and fun! 

I’ve booked myself onto a 1/2 day tour to visit a site called ‘My Son’. Which means, Beautiful Mountain.

This is a cultural site with the remains of up to 70 Hindu temples built between the 4th – 13th century by the kings of Champa Kimgdom and the Cham People. The temples are dedicated to Shiva. 

The whole site was extensively damaged by US bombing during the Vietnam War. Various international groups, have helped towards its restoration including India, Italy, The Netherlands but excluding the USA! 

Our tour group was interesting, it included a lone Korean guy, 2 French couples, a Swiss couple, a Malaysian couple and an Australian group, Nan, Grandad, Son and 8 month old baby! 

The difficulty came not from the delightful 8 month old Oscar, who was an Angel but from the Malaysian couple, the husband got on the bus drunk and drinking beer, playing his music very loudly on his phone, obviously he sat next to me! And one of the french couples kept us waiting for nearly 30 mins! In my opinion if you are not at your pick up point at the allotted time you forfeit your place. (Harsh but fair I feel!) 

Anyway, the group were ok, we didn’t really bond..😂 However our guide Misa was amazing, so informative. 

The actual construction of the temples is fascinating. The bricks they made are aerated and they don’t allow moss or lichen to grown on them, they gaps between the bricks is tiny. All of these things can’t be replicated by modern day construction. Groups have tried to replicate this but so far they have failed. They believe that the bricks have a layer of either honey or resin between them and that they were then coated in something to prevent organic growth. When you see the temples the original bricks look new and the new ones look old! It amazing to think that with all our technology we are unable to produce something as effective as people did in the 4th Century! 😳😳

I’m so glad I made this trip as it was so interesting. We leave the site and head back towards Hoi An, seating arrangements had changed and I was no longer sitting next to Mr Beer drinker, who had consumed a few more drinks during the trip! 🤪

The last part of our journey is on a boat along the river. We also had snacks on the boat, everyone got a Banh Mai, another Vietnamese staple of a crispy baguette with salad, pate and pork, I opted for egg! It was my first Banh Mai and it was yummy. 😋 

I spent my last couple of days in Hoi A simply wandering and enjoying the beautiful surroundings. It’s so peaceful to be in the Old Town early in the morning before the crowds come, watching the locals setting up, fishing, chatting and going about their lives. 

I also booked myself onto a Lantern making workshop. Hoi An is synonymous with Lanterns, they are everywhere. So I felt it was only right to have one, and to be able to make it myself is great. 

It was actually trickier than I’d thought. I had 2 options: 1. Use their ready prepared frame or 2. make the frame as well as covering it. I went for option 2! This involved bending the bamboo, quite a bit of dexterity fitting it all together, then same sewing the hold the frame rigid, but also collapsible! Then you put the material on the frame, this is also pretty difficult, especially if you want your lantern to look nice! Apparently I was a very good student and did a surprisingly good job. 🥰🥰 I did surprise myself at how well it turned out. A fabulous way to spend a morning. 🩵💙

I’ve been chatting to Evi & Donald some more and we also enjoyed a drink together on my last night. 

They are in Vietnam for their Grandsons wedding. They are such a lovely couple, Donald is an artist and Film set builder he also used to be part of a Canadian Snow sculpting team! Evi is a beautiful soul. I’m definitely going to visit them in Whitehorse Canada! 

This hotel has been a fabulous place to spend time, busy and people are friendly, the staff are fabulous. They gave me a gorgeous embroidered purse as a gift at my last breakfast this morning. ❤️

Hoi An met all of my expectations. If you’re in Vietnam, don’t miss it! 

Next I’m off to Hue. Taking another bus, as it’s only 3 hours. I’m using the same company that took me from Dalat to Nha Trang, so fingers crossed it will be as good. 

Update. 

I resisted buying cowboy boots or a bag! I did however have a dress made! Just a summer floaty one. I also did bump into the lovely seller again! 😂 And now have several bookmarks and fridge magnets! 😍😍

All in all a wonderful 5 days. 

Books read.

The Last Dance. Mark Billingham. Good. 

I’m sure I’ve read more than 1 book! 🤷‍♀️

Have a fabulous Sunday.

🩵💙🩷❤️💛

Thursday 26th – Tuesday 1st October 

Having been dropped off at my hotel after a lovely journey, I was a little early for check in so I left my luggage and set off to explore.

Naha Trang is big and built up, lots of hotels and lots of holiday makers! 

I walk to the beach, which is pretty close. The beach and the ocean look great! It is the South China Sea, a new one for me. 🌊💙

The beach doesn’t have lots of shade but you can rent a sun bed and umbrella pretty cheaply. 

I get stopped by a guy offering tours. He asks me how long I’ve been in Nha Trang and I say 1 hour, he proceeds to offer me a city tour that’ll last for around 1.5 hours, when I ask how much he says 800,000 vnd! 

I just laugh at him and tell him I’ve been in Vietnam for 2 weeks and that he’s taking the piss! I paid 350,000 for my full day tour in Dalat, including lunch!  He then starts lowering the price and I just say Bye 👋 

I understand that it’s low season and I wouldn’t mind paying a little extra, I just don’t like being ripped off. 

I head back to the hotel and check in. The hotel is in a good spot, close to the beach and all restaurants, but not too busy. 

My plan for Nha Trang is to just chill. There are no tours I want to do, there are lots of opportunities to go diving but as I still haven’t managed to open my eyes underwater, I don’t think it’s for me!! 😂

So, Nha Trang is a very popular destination for both Russians, flying in from Kazakhstan and for Koreans. There are lots of shops, restaurants and general holiday vibes. 

I did enjoy my stay, it was good to have a little relaxation, especially as I had 3 days of sunshine! Which was so lovely after having so many rainy days. 

I literally spent my time, lounging around on the beach, swimming or more accurately, bobbing around in the sea. 

I didn’t find a Vietnamese restaurant that served Vegetarian food, I found one that did a set meal but only for 2 or more people! 

The emphasis here is definitely on meat and seafood.  

I did however find a really lovely small Italian restaurant, run by a very dishy Italian man! The food was yummy, homemade pasta with tomato sauce and a delicious Limoncello Spritz! 🍋💛 it was so good I went back a couple of times! 

I’m not sure how I feel about Nha Trang, it felt like I could have been anywhere, it’s not a bad place at all, just not really my cup of tea. 

The staff in the hotel and the restaurants were all lovely and in one particularly fabulous chocolate shop, once they realised I was English they wanted to chat for ages as they liked my accent, then gave me a free box of amazing chocolates! ❤️😍

I was also treated to a wonderful video call from the lovely young lad I met in Ho Chi Minh City, Quan! We chatted for a bit, he showed me how to change the background on my iPad and add filters during our chat! He then played me some music on his piano 🎹 OMG he was so talented! It was so sweet to talk to him again. 

I am now ready for a little more exploring! So it’s just as well I’m off to Hoi An. I think it will be amazing. 

I found a lovely cab driver called Mr Eddie to take me to Nha Trang airport which is about a 45 min drive. Mr Eddie is very chatty and tells me how difficult things are in Nha Trang since COVID.  The lack of tourists has had a massive impact, they also now have quite a few Russians living in Nha Trang who don’t want to return to Russia and be conscripted into the army, they end up working for and in the Russian focused businesses adding to local difficulties. 

Mr Eddie also talked about the current situation in the North Vietnam and the damage done by Typoon Yagi. He believes that one of the biggest problems is over use of the land, clearing large areas of jungle for farming, this then makes the area much more prone to huge landslides as there are no longer deep roots holding the earth in place. Interestingly, they have a lot of Landslides in Dalat, where there is extensive farming. 

The recent landslides up in Sapa have been devastating.

He also talked about the lack of effective Government response to the economic situation and the devastation in the North. 

After a very interesting and informative taxi ride I arrived at Nha Trang ailrport, which felt weird. As we pull up to the terminal, there is barely any traffic and no people around, this is so odd. It’s very quiet inside as well. 

I had checked in online and been allocated seats at the back of the plane on both flights, Nha Trang to HCMC then HCMC to Da Nang. 

When I checked my bag in the lovely lady changed my seats to one’s right at the front!! 😍

As always, I was a tad early, but I don’t mind that, I just found a comfy seat and read my book. 

The flight ended up leaving around 20 minutes late, this was then cutting things a bit fine for my connecting flight. 

I had spoken to a steward about it so when we landed, after only 50 mins, I was told that I could disembark with the Business Class passengers, Fancy! (They are collected first and transported in their own fancy bus to the terminal) 

This would then hopefully get me to my next flight in time. 

One particular gentleman in Business Class seemed very put out when I appeared in a seat next to him, he asked the steward why I was there and then huffed about it! 😂 When we left the plane he made sure he was first off and the same from the airport bus, this wouldn’t have been so bad but in his haste to be first he left his poor wife trailing behind with the bags! What a total Cockwomble! 😂 

I’m so glad I had this extra time as I had to go back through security and I was stopped because I had omitted my middle name from my flight ticket. 

I was taken aside, phone calls were made, time was ticking, I was sweating! Eventually they decided that the missing ‘Louise’ didn’t actually constitute a security issue and I was allowed through!! 😳

I made it just in time to board. 👍🎉

Another short flight and I was in Da Nang, hopeful that my case had made it as well 🤞🤞 It did! 

Then I was picked up by the driver organised by the hotel and off I went on my way to Hoi An! 

Another interesting drive. We drove past so many humongous Resorts, Marriotts, Hilton’s, Sheratons, Hyatts! And they are so BIG! But again I can’t see many cars or people, how do they survive? 

There are Casinos in Da Nang, even though gambling is essentially illegal in Vietnam, so possibly the gambling brings in the high rollers. 🤷‍♀️

I arrived at my hotel, a lovely small boutique hotel and was greeted so warmly by the beautiful An. 

A good start to what should be a fabulous stay in Hoi An! 

That’s it for now guys. 

Have a good week. 

Sending lots of love. 

❤️🩷💙🩵💚💛

Books read:

The Story Collector. Evie Woods. I loved this book, a proper ‘Story’ set in Ireland. I enjoy this author, her books are lovely to read. 

The Book of Fire. Christy Lefteri. ❤️❤️ Wow! 

Another stunning book by the Author of The Bee Keeper of Aleppo. 

She writes so beautifully and so powerfully. 

If you haven’t read any of her books, then please do so! 

Monday 23rd – Thursday 26th September 2024

Monday was my first Vietnamese Bus experience.

Things didn’t start well. 

I left the hotel and arrived at the bus office 40mins before my departure time. 

There were roadworks outside the bus office making it extremely difficult to manoeuvre my case, negotiate the potholes and get up the huge step into the office. There were lots of people and staff around but the only person to help was a tiny very old man who was begging in the street! 🥺

Once inside the office the guy behind the counter completely ignored me and continued to eat his food. Eventually someone else came behind the counter, looked at my ticket and explained using google translate that I was late! 

Unfortunately nobody had told me that I needed to be at the office an hour before the stated departure time. 😳 She rebooked me onto a bus leaving at 1pm instead of 12pm. To be honest I couldn’t understand why this was necessary as it was still only 11.20. 

All became clear when I got onto the little mini bus to go to the Big Bus. This journey took 45 mins! We arrived at a huge coach station on the other side of HCM where there were hundreds of coaches!! 

I was taking a Bus with a company called FUTU, their office and waiting area was massive, with lots of signs, a digital notice board all In Vietnamese, the staff were a little more helpful and I eventually figured out what bus I was on and how the whole process worked. 

I also discovered that the 6 hour bus journey I was expecting to take was actually going to be taking approx 8.5 hrs! 😬

The bus itself is called a Limousine Bus and has little reclining seating pods. 3 across with a gap between. 

I had stowed my case in the hold but was trying to board and navigate the very narrow walkway holding my smallish backpack, my handbag, a small bag with snacks and a bloody Vietnamese Hat!! Less than ideal! There is nowhere to put anything in or by your seat, so all of the above were shoved by my feet or in my lap! 

The seat itself is very comfortable, lies totally flat, they provide a blanket, water and there are charging points. If you were quite tall it might be tricky. 

I had this idea that we would leave HCM and then be driving through the countryside. This is not the case we seemed to just drive through built up areas for hours and hours. After nearly 4 hours we stopped at a service area.  We arrived at the same time as a huge storm with torrential rain. 🌧️ They have a pretty clever system, whereby you leave the bus, minus your shoes and as you get off there is a box full of plastic sliders for you to use. This prevents people’s shoes getting wet! 

You have to take your shoes off before boarding as standard.

The last part of the journey which would have been through the mountains and I’m sure would have been very pretty, was done in the dark. 

I eventually arrived in Dalat 10 hours after leaving HCM!! 

The bus ticket also includes a mini bus to take you to your hotel, which was very welcome. 

My hotel looked great, small but ok. The lovely guy on reception, Tre, was so nice. He showed me to my room, which whilst being very large and clean was in the basement with 1 tiny window and also right by the reception area which is open to the main road. It didn’t feel very safe, Tre assured me that the reception was closed with a roller door at night. 

By this time, 11pm. I just wanted to get some sleep. I was also pretty hungry but Tre told me everywhere shuts at 10pm!! Except the Bakery next door, which was still open. 

My supper consisted of water and a small tiramisu!! 

The bed was comfy and I slept pretty well until around 5ish when the noise from the road (it’s a main route into Dalat) and the garage next door woke me up! 😩

The lovely Tre agreed to move me to another room at the back of the hotel, which is great. 

My first morning in Dalat started very early and I was out and about by 8am. I found the various things I needed, an ATM and a Pharmacist for some painkillers (for my neck which is a little sore) I then had a lovely walk around the city and more specifically the beautiful lake in the centre. lake Xuan Huong. 

Dalat is also well known for its flowers and there are so many around. It really is a very beautiful place. The climate here is also amazing, much cooler and fresher than anywhere else I’ve been so far. Very few places here have air conditioning as they simply don’t need it. 

I’ll be honest I was still feeling very tired after the bus ride and not much sleep, and as always when arriving somewhere new it can be discombobulating. I wasn’t feeling particularly positive, I wasn’t sure about my onwards travel plans, unsure about traveling to far north I was also not feeling particularly enthusiastic about another long bus ride. One of the problems with the buses is that they don’t stop very often, this is tricky in terms of having to pee! Which means I end up not drinking very much then getting dehydrated. On my previous bus journeys, I’ve known that we will stop every 2 hours, this isn’t the case in Vietnam. We stopped twice on a 10hr journey! 

I haven’t really found my way around the food here yet either. I’m not a big fan of seafood or pork which are staple ingredients in lots of dishes. 

I had a chat to my Rebecca which was very negative on my part and a bit of a moan fest 😬 She offered lots of helpful suggestions, which I wasn’t really in the mood to hear at that point, but  thought about them later and she was right. Thank you my gorgeous girl. ❤️

I googled nice places to eat, got a Grab to a lovely small place in town, had a yummy meal then booked a nice tour for the next day and got an early night! 

After a very good nights sleep things feel brighter. 

I’m picked up for my tour at 8.15 and there are just 3 of us. 

Veronica a beautiful young woman from the Czech Republic, who is currently living in Sayulita in Mexico. Stanly a really nice man from Malta. Our guide is Chien who is very chatty and informative. 

The first stop is a coffee farm. There are lots of Coffee farms around the hills in Dalat. This farm specialises in Weasel Coffee. This is made from coffee beans that have been ingested then pooped out by the weasels. Apparently some enzyme in their stomachs does something to the beans! 

The farm is up in the hills and the views are stunning. It’s absolutely beautiful. We have the chance to get a coffee, Veronica is the only one who tries it. She has become addicted to Vietnamese coffee, which is helpful for me as she explains the different options to me. 

After the Coffee Farm we visit a cricket farm. This wasn’t quite as beautiful 😳 Crickets are eaten as a snack, they’re are a good source of protein and apparently taste quite nutty. We have the option to try, Veronica and I pass, Stanley says they’re quite nice. We all try the rice wine! 

Next we visit a silk factory. This is really interesting and also a little disconcerting. 

1 cocoon makes so much thread 300 – 600 meters! 

The poor worms are still inside when the process starts, they are then removed at the end and they can be eaten. 

A fascinating visit learning about the whole process. 

After this we made our way to the first waterfall, Elephant Waterfall, this is opposite a huge statue of Maitreya Buddha at Linh A Pagoda. 

The waterfall is in full flow, the water is brown due to the volcanic mud. 

To reach the viewing area it’s down quite a few stone steps! 

From the waterfall we go back across to view the Pagoda. The whole site is great. There are some very tranquil gardens and the views are lush. 

After this we stop for lunch. Veronica and I opted to share a vegetarian lunch. 

The lunch is huge! So glad we are sharing. It’s also my first proper Vietnamese food! OMG, so good! Some delicious vegetable soup, clay pot tofu, I can’t stand tofu, it’s a textural thing, but the sauce is yummy! Stir fry veggies, spring rolls, and Chips! 

The food is so tasty, it’s great to share with others and try new things. 

Veronica is a chef and proper foodie! She says getting vegetarian food here is not difficult at all, which is good to know. 

The lunch cost £2! 😍

The next stop is Pongour Waterfall. This is a big waterfall, which Chien says has much clearer water. 

This is also reached by descending stone steps, in this case lots and lots of stone steps!! I’m so relived to have had a beautiful sunny day, I wouldn’t have been able to do these steps in the rain, they would be so slippery! 

The waterfall is gorgeous, definitely worth the strain on my knees!! 😁

Stanley is such a Gentleman, he offers to help me and also carry mine and Veronica’s bags. So kind. 

Luckily for us there is a buggy ride back to the top! Hallelujah 🙌 

Our final stop is a little Bee Farm, another interesting stop. 

All in all it has been a fabulous day out. We were so blessed with the weather and to have such a small group, but with lovely people! 

Veronica and I swap numbers as she may be heading to Nha Trang. And we can meet up. 

I book another tour for the next day with Chien, as it’s a great way to see lots of the area. 

When I get back to the hotel, feeling positive and refreshed I make a decision and book a flight from Nha Trang to Da Nang and also book accommodation in Hoi An, which is a 30min drive from Da Nang airport. 

I’ve only booked 2 nights in Hoi An, I’ll extend when I get there and if I like the hotel. I feel better for having a plan I place. I also feel OK about not taking the bus or the train both of which would have their difficulties, especially when traveling solo. 

I have another yummy dinner, Vietnamese curry, and am just on my way to bed when I get a call to say that my tour is cancelled as there are not enough people to run it! 

It’s a shame, but nothing I can do. 

Unfortunately the weather isn’t too great either, but I opt to have a wet and soggy wander around Dalat. The roads here are much less frenzied than in HCMC or Phnom Penh and I’ve got pretty good at crossing but today as I crossed a pretty slow traffic road a Grab Moped came flying round the corner and missed me by a hairs breath! 😬😳 Learning lesson, never cross near a corner! 

My now very bent and battered umbrella did its job and kept me more or less dry throughout my walk! 

I finish up in a coffee shop where I order my first Cà Phê Muôi or Salt Coffee. It’s made with coffee, condensed milk some sort of foam and salt! It’s delicious 😋 Thanks for the recommendation Veronica! 

I think the more traditional ones I’ll try when I’m in Hoi An, or Hue as that’s where it originated from. 

I’m going to go back to the same restaurant again this evening as I spotted a Vietnamese Set Menu with a vegetarian option. I’m really trying to expand my knowledge of Vietnamese food. The food is absolutely gorgeous! Some sort of soy, garlic roasted mushrooms, the best thing! Broth, salad, rice, scrambled eggs and steamed rice. Everything tasted amazing it was so good I didn’t really eat any of my rice! All for £4

Dalat is a really fabulous place to visit in Vietnam, it gets missed out on people’s itinerary’s but I would definitely recommend it, especially during the dry season as it will provide a welcome break from the heat! 

I’m looking forward to my bus to Nha Trang, as it was dark when I arrived I’ll get to enjoy the scenery through the hills. 

I had booked a smaller Minivan for this trip as it’s only 3.5 hours, although it is supposed to be a luxury one. It arrives half an hour before departure, standard (now I know about these things! 😃) I assume I’m the first to be picked up but as the bus works its way out of Dalat and up into the hills I realise I’m actually the only passenger! 😍 I’m really surprised they didn’t cancel the bus TBH. 

The journey is nothing short of spectacular! 

The weather is bloody fabulous as well! 🌞🌞

We leave Dalat through the hills which are literally covered in thousands of poly tunnels growing all manner of crops and flowers. 

All of the farms here are family owned, nothing is controlled by big companies, which is great. 

After just over an hour we stop for a wee break, then start to climb upwards and then we are no longer in hills but mountains ⛰️ 

The views are stunning. 

The road is windy and very steep and my driver is fab, going slowly and carefully. There are waterfalls everywhere. We are travelling through Bidoup Nui Ba National Park and the Omega Pass the second longest in Vietnam. We are in the mountains for more than 2 hours. It was honestly awesome. I tried to take pics from the bus, but they don’t do it justice. 

Once you descend from the mountains you are on a flat bit then there is Nha Trang and the Ocean! 

It’s so weird to have come through all this nature and then suddenly be surrounded by high rise buildings! 

The bus drops me at my hotel, very handy. 

So now we’ll see what Nha Trang is all about! 

Till next time!

Have a fabulous weekend everyone.

Sending you all lots of love. I miss you.

💚🩵⛰️🌊🩷❤️

Books Read.

The Twenty Three. Linwood Barclay. The last in the trilogy. OK, glad I’ve finished the set. But feel there may be more coming. Also I’m pretty sure some of the characters have featured in his other books? 

When we were friends. Jane Green. It was a short story!! How irritating. Still it filled 30mins! 

I also watched “The Perfect Couple” on Netflix. Entertaining. 

Tuesday 17th – Monday 23rd September 2024.

Wow, so it’s been a while since my last blog! Don’t really know why I’ve been so lax, strap in, I think it might be a long one! 

One of the reasons I write my blog regularly is so I don’t forget where I’ve been and what I’ve been doing! It’s easy to lose track when you’re moving about. 

The last blog ended in Kampot. I’m pleased to say that my bus wasn’t rescheduled and left promptly at 8.30. After a pretty uneventful journey we arrived back into Phnom Penh around lunchtime. I grabbed a Tuk Tuk to the hotel, I’m staying back at the same place, The White Mansion, mainly as it’s central, good value and the bus picks up from here! 

I was welcomed back like a long lost relative! 😍 So lovely and they had given me a larger room! I didn’t do much for the rest of the day, swam, read and just relaxed. The weather in the afternoons is usually pretty unpredictable and rainy. A relaxing day and an early night! 

On my list of things to do in Phnom Penh had been to do the river walk, just a nice little promenade area down along the riverside. 

With the weather looking promising after breakfast I set off. I walked down towards the large Independence Monument, which is impressive. This area also had some trees for shade. I eventually made it to the riverbank, after dodging traffic (I’m a pro at this now😁) and sweating buckets! 

The area I arrived at is the spot where the Tonle Sap river and the Mekong River meet, flowing in different directions. 

The rivers are very high due to the season and quite wide. It’s surprisingly quiet on this part of the river. 

I stop in a cafe for a drink, as I stupidly came out without my water! 

As I sit there I can see the rain clouds gathering, so decide to head back. 

You can see all the locals covering their stalls and people heading for cover. The wind picks up quite a bit, then the rain comes in a sudden heavy burst! My little umbrella gets turned inside out, spokes are buckled but luckily for me it still works! ☔️ I walk back through the rain, I’m so pleased that Phnom Penh has non slippery paving! Absolute live saver, literally. 😳😀

I stop at a nice little coffee shop on the way,  have a coffee and read my book while the rain pours down outside. 

When I get back to the hotel it’s still raining, so I decide to do some planning for Vietnam. 

Looking for buses from Ho Chi Minh City is a little confusing, so many to choose from and some sites not in English, so many recommendations! In the end I decide to wait until I get to my hotel in HCM and ask them for advice. 

I pack up my stuff, go out for a last dinner in Cambodia. Which is obviously going to be Vegetable fried rice!! 😂

My bus is due to arrive at 9.45 so once again I do as instructed and am ready to go at 8.45, luckily, as the driver appears at 9am! What actually happens is the company send a small bus to collect passengers from various hotels and takes them to the main coach in the centre of town, which now makes sense of the flexibility on collecting times! 

The coach is great, I have a single seat by the window, it’s pretty busy but everything is looking good! 

It’s a 7+ hour trip to Ho Chi Minh City, which includes the border crossing. 

I’d like to say it was a good trip and in the most part it was, the coach, drivers, host and the border crossing were all brilliant. 

The problem came from the totally obnoxious areshole sitting behind me. 

He was simply vile, rude, ignorant and loud! 

Every time the lovely host/helper spoke to us about anything, welcoming us aboard, explaining about toilet breaks, information about the border procedure he would make noises (loud enough for everyone to hear) the whole way through the talk! He pushed his way to the front whenever we stopped, complained about the water, the wifi, he was unbelievably rude to the poor host. He then made huffing, snorting noises for no apparent reason, played his phone loudly and listened to a podcast or something which could have been by Andrew Tate it was so misogynistic! A total wanker. 

We eventually arrived in Ho Chi Minh City around 5.30. By then I was tired, and I had a headache. I got into a cab to the hotel. I asked the driver how much, having shown him the address, he said it was on a meter, that’s great, so it should be a regulated fare. Sadly not! The twatty driver refused to take me to the actual hotel, dropping me off down the road, then told me it would be 400,000 Vietnamese Dong, which is $20! Which is a total rip off. Unfortunately I was locked in the back of the cab, with my case in the boot and it was either pay him or be stuck in the bloody cab! I paid, told him he was an arsehole, and then walked to my hotel! 🤬

All in all not my best journey so far! 

The hotel reception staff were lovely and made me feel lots better, my room was gorgeous with double windows looking over the city. I unpacked, drank a ton of water and took a paracetamol for my headache then ventured out to have a look around the hotel and find some dinner. 

I ended up at the rooftop bar, which has fabulous views. It was happy hour so I had a cheeky cocktail, more water then headed down to the restaurant for dinner. The menu was good, with lots of western dishes and Asian dishes, I opted for rice, no surprise. Then It was off to bed, as the whole day had been exhausting! My bed is enormous, comfy and with the best feather pillows, pure heaven! 😌😴😴

I slept really well and was feeling rested, positive and ready to start my Vietnam adventure! 

First breakfast! 

It’s a buffet style breakfast but the staff are so attentive and can’t seem to do enough for you, which is lovely but also a bit disconcerting! 

After breakfast I headed downstairs to speak to the concierge about where to get a SIM card and booking a bus to my next stop, Dalat. 

The concierge, Luck, was amazing. He is from Dalat and travels there often. He said I had a couple of options. I could get a private car, which he then contacted a company to get a price. I could fly, or I could get the bus. The private car was going to cost $160 a flight would be the quickest, but also a little expensive, as I was booking last minute. The bus, which Luck uses all the time takes approximately 5 -6 hours and costs $12! I went with the bus. Luck then organised all the booking for me! He sorted out a Spa treatment at a Spa outside the hotel, went over the map with me and highlighted all the places I could go including the phone shop for my Sim! He was a total legend. 

So off I went. Phone shop first, easy. New sim fitted and working. Then I made my way to the War Remnants Museum. 

I got there just as the heavens opened! 

The museum is another difficult place to go, but also an important one. It takes you through the Vietnamese history and most specifically the Vietnam War. I knew most of the history, but not all of the facts and statistics, which are shocking. 

I also didn’t really appreciate how devastating the use of chemical weapons, such as Agent Orange, has been for Vietnam and its people. They have such hideous long term effects. 

A sobering experience. 

When I’d finished in the museum it was still chucking it down but what can you do! I got out my trusty, bent up brolly and off I went! 

Ho Chi Minh City also has fairly non slip paving, thank god! 

I eventually came to one of the buildings I wanted to visit; The Central Post Office. It’s a beautiful old building and right beside a cathedral I wanted to see. Unfortunately the Cathedral is closed for renovation. 

Next to the Post Office I found a fabulous little street full of bookshops!! 😍 It would have been better if it wasn’t still chucking it down! 

I ambled back to the hotel, once it stops raining I go up to the rooftop bar and treat myself to a glass of wine!! 

I end up sitting next to an American guy called Nicholas from Kansas. He is great company, easy to talk to and the time and the wine go down very nicely! 🍷🍷

He is then joined by his friend and travel buddy, Patrick also very nice to chat too. 

After a few glasses I decide, rather sensibly to go and get some dinner, then head to bed. 

As I’m sure you are all aware by now it was my birthday! 

I’ll be honest I was dreading spending the day on my own, it’s always a mixed feelings day, as it’s also my Wedding Anniversary. 

The day turned out to be absolutely fabulous! I was very very spoilt by my beautiful children, Rebecca, Georgia & Grantley and by all my lovely friends! So many treats, messages, wine, cakes, videos! 

I’d decided to do very little all day and that’s exactly what I did, which was lucky as the weather was terrible! 

I got presented with the most glorious bouquet of flowers at my Champagne breakfast! 🍾💐 Then lots of people wishing me Happy Birthday! The kids had arranged for me to have a Spa treatment. 

The lovely Luck, organised and booked it and then sorted out the Grab, which was not easy due to the horrendous weather! 

My spa treatment was an amazing herbal massage which involved hot oil and hot stones. It was fantastic and afterwards my back and neck felt the best they have for ages! Then I had a cheeky pedicure, also amazing. 

When everything was finished I went through to reception and they bought me over a chair to sit on while I put my shoes on. Unfortunately it was a tricky little wheeled office type chair, I went to sit on it, it moved back and I ended up falling onto the floor! 😳🫣🫢 in front of a room full of people! FFS! 🤦‍♀️ I was OK, a little surprised and the worst of it was I jarred my neck…again!! It’s funny because you end up doing the very British thing of assuring everyone that you’re “Fine” but inside you want to cry! 😢 

I headed back to the hotel and was determined this was not spoiling my day, so I took an ibuprofen and cracked on with things!! 👍😍

I took myself to the rooftop bar ordered a glass of my favourite Whispering Angel wine 😇 and had a fabulous evening. I chatted again to Nicholas & Patrick and also a beautiful English couple, Dom & Grace who had just got engaged! ❤️ 

The staff presented me with a personalised Vietnamese Hat and the whole bar sang Happy Birthday 🥳😚 Then I  went to bed, watched rubbish on Netflix and eat birthday cake! All in all a wonderful day! 

Thank to everyone who made it so fabulous. 🩷💚🩵❤️

To my surprise I woke the next day feeling ok, neck is sore but not too bad. It’s also not raining! Yeah! 

I set out to explore a little more. As it’s Sunday everyone is out and about, sitting in the park with friends, drinking coffee, visiting places. I walk to the Independence Palace, it’s a really interesting place to visit, and very busy! 

As I arrive I spot an older man on his own, he keeps looking over at me and eventually asks me if I’m on my own, he explains that he is and it’s his first visit to the Palace. He asks if we can look around together, I say no problem. I think he wanted me to take some photos of him in the palace, which I did. He was very sweet. He didn’t want to look around the whole place so we parted ways after I took lots of pics of him! 😍 I didn’t get a pic of us together 🤦‍♀️ Imdid get one of him walking away! 

It’s started to rain a little so I go off for a wander through the park and the local area. It’s great to just walk and observe life going on. 

I decide I need a coffee and opt to go back to the Book street as I’d seen a lovely little cafe there. 

I have to say the Vietnamese take their coffee very seriously! Every other building is a coffee shop, and they are all full! 

The book street is nice and busy as is the Cafe. I try my first Vietnamese Coffee, made with condensed milk….delicious! 😋 I’m sitting enjoying my coffee reading my book when a family sit down beside me. Then the young lad with them scoots his chair over and asks me where I’m from. This leads to myself and Quan having an hour long conversation about all sorts, books, his favourite is Diary of a Whimpy Kid! School, my children, my travels, his friends, Vietnam history, food…..all of this in English and Quan is 8!! He was amazing, such a chatty, clever thing. Neither of his parents spoke English, he said he learns from YouTube, books and online! Quan & I were then joined by another young lad, Pep, who is 14. He was also very smart and spoke great English. 

It was such a wonderful, unexpected encounter and I loved it. 

As Quan and his family were leaving they gave me a beautiful canvas bag (that the dad had run over the road to purchase) as a gift! 💝🥰 How beautiful is that! 

Back at the hotel I go for my first swim in the rooftop pool, as it’s not raining. The pool is bloody freezing! 🥶 Invigorating but bloody cold! 

Needless to say I’m the only nutter in there! 

This is followed by a beautiful foot massage at the hotel spa, which was one of the best I’ve had! So wonderful. Thank you gorgeous Tracey & Haley.❤️❤️

I opt to go out for dinner, so have a mooch around by the hotel. I go into a very cute little place that looks very Instagram inspired, flowers, pastel colours, teddy bears everywhere and full of beautiful young people. 

I would have loved to stay but didn’t want a coffee and the menu was limited in terms of what I wanted. I then tried another 3 places. I was looking for noddles or rice but without meat or seafood! Honestly harder than finding someone with an IQ at a Trump Rally! 

Eventually I find a little food stall in a Fabulous market across from the hotel who was prepared to make me rice with just vegetables 🌽🥒. 

I do think I’m going to struggle a bit in terms of food, as I don’t really eat seafood or pork, which are the stable ingredient in lots of dishes. I’m sure I will figure it out! 

I have enjoyed my time in Ho Chi Minh City, I would like to come back at some point and explore more around the area, I just didn’t have the time, the weather or the energy this time. 

Some observations so far. The city is very modern but with traditional stuff here and there. The young people are super stylish and very beautiful. Everyone I’ve met so far has been kind and helpful (apart from the taxi driver, but he’s an aberration!)  Coffee is serious business, they are very proud of their country and their culture. 

Today I’m heading by bus to a place inland, Dalat. It’ll be interesting to see how the Vietnamese buses are! 

As a little side note. I am due to be traveling through Vietnam heading northwards. Unfortunately the country is suffering with a really bad Typhoon season, and things up north in Hoi An, Hanoi and Sapa are pretty bad. They were hit a week ago by a huge storm, called Nagi and there has been a great deal of damage, flooding and landslides. 

Travel advice at present is not to travel to these areas, particularly Hanoi and Sapa. I will keep a watch on things and if I need to, will change my plans accordingly. 

That’s it for now my lovelies. 

Books read.

The Secret of Flowers. Sally Page. Another lovely one by this author. Really enjoyed it. 

That’s it! Bit slow on the reading front at the moment! 

Have a great week everyone.

Love and hugs. 

🩵💚❤️🩷💝

Friday 13th – Monday 16th September 2024

My last full day in Phnom Penh was Friday, I only realised later it was Friday 13th!! 

I was planning on having a quiet day but also wanted to see a bit more of the City. I messaged Mr Lucky and he said he was free and we could do a small city tour. 

This sounded fine to me as my back was definitely a bit sore. 

Mr Lucky is a funny thing who unfortunately he doesn’t live up to his name! 

He arrived and informed me that overnight someone had unscrewed and stolen his wing mirrors! ☹️😬 Awful for him and less than ideal to be driving around a mad busy city with no mirrors! But, Hey Ho! 

We set off to have a drive by the river and to see the Grand Palace, again.

Two rivers join in Phnom Penh, The Tonle Sap river, which flows down from the huge Tonle Sap Lake this then becomes the mighty Mekong River which flows into the into and through the Mekong Delta. 

I would have really liked to do a small Mekong Delta Cruise on one of the old wood and steal boats but I didn’t book in advance and the timings wouldn’t work with my bookings in Phnom Penh and Ho Chi Minh City they were also incredibly expensive for what you get. I’ll save my money for Halong Bay in Vietnam. 

The roads around the river seem particularly busy, with all manner of vehicles carrying a bewildering array of goods! As we are sat in traffic Mr Lucky starts pointing at his dash board where there is a flashing red light, he mentions petrol! At this point the traffic is barely moving, I have no idea where he’s going to get petrol so have visions of us grinding to a halt further slowing down the traffic and making a spectacle of ourselves!! 😃 As the traffic clears I spot a petrol station ahead….Phew. 

But, No, we go sailing past the petrol station then head off the main road into the winding back streets before pulling up into a random building/garage/lockup!? Where someone starts to fill up the Tuk Tuk. Mr Lucky then asks to borrow $5 to pay for the petrol! 😂😂😂

From here we go through the city to a Large Temple called Wat Phnom Daun Penh. It’s in a nice park and it looks relatively large but I’m just not in the mood to look around so instead I have a quiet stroll around it through the shady park! 

Our next stop is The Central Market. My main reason for visiting is the building itself rather than the shopping. The building is a beautiful Art Deco Structure opened in 1937 and built by the French during their colonial rule. 

The building is gorgeous, with a big domed area at the centre then 4 branches off from there. 

It’s a huge market but sadly there are very few people in there. 

I’m pretty much done after this, so ask Mr Lucky to take me back to the hotel. 

I have a lovely long, cold swim and read my book. 

I’m going to attempt an early night, as I’m leaving for Kampot in the morning. My bus departure time is 8am from the hotel, but reception has told me I need to be ready and waiting an hour before! Annoying.

I don’t get a great nights sleep, no idea why, I just can’t get to off to sleep. Before I know it it’s 5.45 time to be up and at it! 

I head downstairs at 7am and have a pot of tea while I wait for the bus to turn up. 

Bang on 8am (not 7, or 7.30 or 7.45 but right when my ticket said it would!) a driver appears in the lobby, myself and another guest who is waiting go forwards, he chats a bit to the receptionist. She then informs me that this is the bus for Siem Reap. She then informs me that my bus is late and will now be arriving at 3pm!! WTAF! 😱😳 That’s not late that’s bloody ridiculous!! 7 hours! I am very pissed off. Especially as I’ve checked out of the hotel, I’m packed, I’m very tired!  

The receptionist speaks to the company but it is what it is. 

Interestingly I received a random WhatsApp from Giant Ibis the day before, just saying “Hi it’s Samsung from Giant Ibis” nothing else. I replied back saying Hi. 

It turns out they emailed me the change of plan, but it went to my gmail which I don’t often look at. (That will now change) 

I have a WhatsApp conversation with the company who are happy to refund my money. I manage to get a seat booked on a VET minibus going to Kampot at 12. So I cancel my ticket and get set to leave at the much more respectful time of 12pm! 

Luckily I had booked seat 2, which was the front passenger seat as the mini bus was pretty full of large, slightly drunk Russian men! 😂 

The journey was good, although it took a long time to get out of Phnom Penh. The driver stopped every hour, mainly for the Russian guys to have a smoke!! 😂

We arrived in Kampot at 3.40 and my hotel was just a short Tuk Tuk ride away. 

The hotel is central to the old town and directly opposite the river. 

As it’s the weekend lots of local people are out and about walking along the riverside promenade enjoying the cool air and their weekend. 

It’s great to sit on the hotel terrace and people watch with a beer. 

I am still feeling really tired so I go out earlyish for dinner. I saw a little vegetarian place with good reviews so I walk there. It’s nice but empty, but I’m hungry so I stay and order the Falafel bowel! 😍😘 OMG, so good. The huge salad element is amazing.  

Feeling stuffed and sleepy it’s home to bed! 

There are a few things I’d like to do in Kampot but I wake up to heavy rain and the hills surrounding the town shrouded in cloud! 

I chat to the lovely manager, Pat, he says that a trip up to Bokor Mountain can’t be done in a Tuk Tuk you have to go in a car and the cost for a return trip, plus seeing all the sites is $50 this seems a little high to me in comparison to other trips I’ve taken. But I think I might book one for the next day when hopefully the weather improves!

I borrow a nice big umbrella and go for a walk around the town. 

It’s certainly in much better shape than Battenbang, the roads are surfaced and it doesn’t feel like a dusty ghost town. The buildings are pretty, French Colonial mixed with Art Deco. Starbucks has nabbed a beautiful Art Deco building right by the river! 

I treat myself to a a back massage in the hope of ironing out the kinks from my fall. I’m pretty sure I explained that I wanted just a back massage, but I got a full body one instead, which was fine. My back certainly feels better. 

One of the things Kampot is well known for is its Pepper! Apparently it’s amongst the best in the world, who knew? Well, actually I did know this! A Pepper Farm visit was one of the things I wanted to do, but not in the pouring rain! Luckily for me when I came out from my massage the rain had eased a lot. I was looking around the Pepper Shop and chatting to the manager and she recommended BoTree Pepper Farm, the main one here is Le Plantation, but it’s not owned by Cambodians. Bo tree is owned by a Cambodian & a Scott! 

She pointed out a Tuk Tuk driver who was parked outside she said he was great, spoke good English and would do a return trip for $15. So I said let’s do it! I jumped into Sa’s Tuk Tuk and we set off! 

It’s quite a way out of town and Sa was great and keeping me informed about things as we drove. 

One of the things he pointed out was a large grey half finished building with no windows. 

I’d seen a lot of these dotted about on my bus journeys, but just assumed they were unfinished buildings. They are in fact buildings designed with speakers on the roof and small openings. The speakers play bird sounds, specifically, swallow bird calls. This is to attract more swallows to come and nest inside the building. Once they are nesting their nests are harvested for the Chinese birds nest market! Once Sa had explained this, you start to notice the increased bird noise, then look and there will be one of these buildings. 

As we leave Kampot you can see the changing landscape, lush fields and surrounding hills. 

We came upon a beautiful lake. Whilst the lake looks beautiful its history isn’t.

It is called The Secret Lake and it grows and shrinks with the seasons, it is man made lake. 

It was constructed by prisoners of the Khmer Rouge. The lake was built to provide water for the increased rice production under the Khmer Rouges agricultural policy. Thousands of prisoners died in its construction and are buried in a mass grave beneath the lake. Beautiful and tragic. 

The last part of our drive to the Farm was on an unfinished road, which due to the rain was very muddy and rutted, on one particular section I was convinced we were going to overturn! Luckily we made it! I really didn’t need another mud bath! 

Bo Tree is fabulous. The whole farm is completely organic, and everything is sourced locally, even the crab shells used in their homemade pesticides and the textiles used to tie the vines to the posts! It is also a ‘Workaway’ host. The volunteers who do the ‘Workaway” get board & lodging in exchange for their services. What I really liked about this was that the Volunteers do not do any of the paid work on the farm, that is all done by local people, who need the work. Their job as volunteers is to show the tourists around the farm using their multiple languages. 

It’s a smallish farm and felt really homly, lots of friendly dogs and cats! 

I was shown around by a lovely young woman called Kate, from Bristol! 

She has been staying on the farm for 2 weeks having travelled up through Vietnam. She was very knowledgeable about the growing and production of the pepper. 

I had no idea that pepper is a vine! 😳

So the pepper grows on vines and is actually a berry. Once ready it’s harvested and then the different peppers are created. First the pepper is boiled, red pepper is boiled for the shortest time so it retains more of the berry flavour. The rest is boiled for a longer. The white pepper then has the outer husk removed and the black pepper doesn’t. I can’t remember what happens with the green pepper corns! All the pepper is then dried. 

I did a tasting, even though I’m not a big pepper fan. It was incredible how different they taste and smell. I also tried whole green peppercorns in brine, I tried them with some rice, surprisingly delicious! 😋 

I ended up sitting with Kate for ages chatting about travelling and drinking lovely Pippali pepper tea! 

It was such a lovely experience. It made my day.

I organised with Sa for his friend to take me to Bokor Mountain the following day. 

I popped across the road for dinner, to a much cheaper, busier place. I went for my usual, Veggie Rice but then went a bit off piste and ordered some Garlic bread! 😛 The rice was good the garlic bread was a huge portion which I would never be able to eat. 

Whilst I was eating a very young boy came in to the restaurant begging, the first time I’ve seen this here. I gave him a couple of dollars, once he’d left I realised I could have given him my garlic bread! Luckily he walked past again with his friend and they left with a few slices each, not sure if they’ll like it it’s not exactly a Cambodian stable! But at least it wasn’t wasted. 

I have woken up to a pretty bright sunny, dry morning which is great for my Mountain trip! 

My driver, Sa’s friend Thebm (pronounced Towan) was there waiting at 10am.

I thought he would be driving a car, as Sa had said Tuk Tuks can’t get up the mountain, what he was actually driving was the little enclosed Tuk Tuk 🚙, which was great as it’s much more open, perhaps not as comfortable as a car but hey Ho.

It takes well over an hour to get to the top of the mountain, especially in this vehicle! It’s a really lovely drive up through lush greenery, which smelt really nice and fresh. There are lots of Macaque Monkeys along the way, some of the males looked very big and a little scary!  The views across to the Ocean at Kep are fabulous, with lots of small waterfalls along the way. 

Our first stop is a huge Buddha statue almost at the top. This was a good stop. Then it starts getting a bit weird. 

As you reach the top it kind of levels out for a bit and there are all these huge, grey, half built, depressing buildings everywhere one is supposed to be a hotel, it honestly looks like a gulag! This appearance is enhanced by the mist and cloud cover coming in. There appears to be nobody living in any of the buildings, even the finished ones. 

We drive past all this grimness and visit a beautiful natural big waterfall. It is in full flow due to the rain overnight. Towan says we could walk across a bit to see over the edge! 😂😂😳 I politely decline, I’m 💯% sure I would slip and go right over the Edge! 

The cost of visiting the waterfall is 2,000 riel £2 and includes a bottle of water! Bargin. 

We drive back past the Gulags and then on towards a Temple and monastery. This takes us past a very large dam being constructed and paid for by the Chinese. (Chinese takeover by stealth) then past a huge, ugly building that’s a Casino and Hotel. This was built by a Cambodian Entrepreneur, and Chinese backers apparently but caters to the growing and lucrative Chinese gambling market. 

During Colonial rule from 1863 – 1953 the French would escape to Bokor   Highlands to get out of the heat. They built a small enclave with church’s, shops, post offices and a big hotel. This all fell to ruin during the ensuing civil war, it is this remodeled hotel that now houses the casino. 

There are more abandoned houses nearby, it is all just a little sad! 

By now we are in thick cloud and it’s started to rain. We stop at the Temple and monastery, but seriously, I can’t see a bloody thing! 😂

I think we did remarkably well to reach the top before the cloud and rain came drown! 👍🩵

We decide to head back down the mountain and Towan sets the Tuk Tuk/car to economy mode, which is basically turning of the engine and freewheeling all the way down the mountain!! 😂😂 it’s definitely more peaceful. 

Towan is a lovely guy, a Kampot local who lives here with his family, he speaks excellent English, which also teaches to local children. 

He was great company and a very knowledgable guide. 
He also picked me some flowers, which are called Minkey Cups, but would be better called Penis Plants!! 😂😂

We managed to share a lot of personal history on our freewheel down the Mountain! 😍

All in all another fantastic day. It is a real shame I can’t spend a bit more time here or in nearby Kep, which is by the sea. But I guess I’ll just have to return! 

Things I’ve noticed in Kampot. 

One: It’s  pretty well maintained, which I’ve mentioned. 

Two: I’ve seen a few rats! 🐀 possibly due to being so close to the river. 

Three: It has the largest number of western white men I’ve seen since I arrived in Cambodia. It is definitely a spot that people, or more specifically men, come to retire to. There is an Irish Bar, and yesterday I walked past a restaurant with lots of westerners eating Roast Dinners! 

Four: it also has the largest number of ‘Dance’ and ‘hook up’ bars I’ve seen. I’m sure there were plenty in Phnom Penh, I just didn’t see them. 

I feel there may be a correlation between some of the above! 

I’m sure there is a very different vibe during the dry season when it’s busy, bustling and less damp, overall I like it. 😍

I going back to Phnom Penh tomorrow morning, hopefully 🤞 my bus won’t be “Rescheduled”! 

I need to now start looking at planning my journey around Vietnam! 

Anyone who has visited and has any tips, ideas or advice please let me know! 

Sorry it’s another long blog! 😍

Have a great week guys. 

❤️🩵🩷💚

Books Read

Guilty Mothers. Angela Marsons. Book 20 of the DI Kim Stone Series. 

I like this book series, obviously, as I’ve read all 20 so far!! ❤️

Tuesday 10th – Friday 13th September 2024

Once again the Bus service has surpassed itself! A great journey from Battenbang to Phnom Penh. It took just over 4 hrs and was very pleasant. We bypassed the big service stops in favour of a locals restaurant stop again. It’s fine but the loos are not the best! 

There were 2 drivers for the 4 hour journey and one of them had a very loud hawking cough, I realised a little later that this was part of a series of tics that he had. Interestingly he is the 4th man I’ve met since being in Cambodia with noticeable physical tics. 

I rested on the bus but didn’t manage any sleep, after another morning waking the bloody temple music! 🎶 

Phnom Penh is busy and bustling. The Bus Station is in the centre and is heaving with people, parcels, minivans and coaches. 

I grab a Tuk Tuk and we set off for my hotel. 

I’m staying in a smallish hotel that used to be the US Ambassadors residence!  It’s lovely! 😍

My room is on the very top floor with a small outside terrace and also a small inside terrace! Which is perfect for sitting in when it’s raining! ☔️ 

My plan for today is to do very little, so I have a swim in the pool, chat to some nice Kiwis, read up on Phnom Penh then head out for some dinner. 

The Australian ladies I met had recommended a place which is nearby. 

I should have trusted my instincts as to where it was instead of asking someone and then being sent in a complete circle before finding it back where I had been! 🤦‍♀️

Anyway, the food was great I had a Cambodian Chicken Curry and a bottle of water. 

I am pleased and relieved to say that my room was perfect. A comfy bed, decent aircon and best of all completely quiet!! 😍

So after a very good nights sleep and a tasty breakfast. I met up with my Tuk Tuk driver from yesterday, Mr Lucky (not his real name I’m guessing!) and we set off for today’s trip.

I knew today was going to be difficult and emotional.

My first stop was at S-21 or Tull Sleng Genocide Museum. 

The building used to be a Secondary School before the Khmer Rouge started using it as a prison and interrogation/torture centre between 1975 -1979. 

As S-21 held many high ranking prisoners from within the Khmer Rouge, as well as intellectuals, monks and other enemies of “Angkar” the name used for the “Organisation” that was the Communist Party of Cambodia, Meticulous records were kept and photographs taken. 

The prisoners included many women, children and a few westerners. 

S-21 is a grim and difficult place to visit, but it’s important to see and remember what happened in Cambodia in order to prevent something like this happening again. 

Also to honour and remember all those that died. 

During this period nearly 1 in 4 Cambodians were murdered.

There are believed to be only 12 known survivors of S-21

One of them, Chum Mey, is still alive aged 94 and was at the site recounting his story. He survived due to his ability to fix typewriters, the same typewriters used to record the torture of himself and his fellow prisoners. 

I was lucky enough to see him and I bought his book. 

I found my visit profoundly moving. 

From S-21 we drove out to an area called The Choeung Ek Genocidal Centre, or Killing Fields. This site is around 15 kilometres outside of Phnom Penh. It used to be an Orchard before it became the Execution centre and killing field for the Khmer Rouge. It is one of over 300 Killing Fields in Cambodia.

Over 17,000 people were killed here including all the prisoners taken from S-21. 

By the time we arrived we were in the middle of a huge storm. The staff provided Umbrellas and an Audio Guide. 

The area looks and feels quite pleasant which makes it difficult to comprehend the atrocities that took place here. Once again the Audio guide was extremely helpful and informative. 

Whilst walking across a muddy area between grave sites I unfortunately slipped on and then into the mud. I was completely covered in wet sticky mud, all over my back, legs, hands and arms, my bag and I broke the umbrella. All of this happened in front of a large Mexican tour party who seemed very concerned about my welfare.

I didn’t seem to have hurt myself so I continued with my tour.

I wouldn’t have been able to take photographs even if I’d felt inclined due to the mud all over my hands. 

I don’t understand people take smiling selfies in front of a Memorial Stupa full of the sculls and bones of the people who died here. Mind boggling and very disrespectful. 

Another deeply disturbing visit. 

Once I arrived back at my hotel, I asked the staff for some cleaning cloths for my bag and shoes and explained that I had fallen in the mud. They were so incredibly kind and concerned for me that I just lost it. 

All the emotions from the day came out and I went to my room and sobbed. 

I called my beautiful Georgia and explained everything that I’d seen and how heartbreaking it was. She was wonderful and let me cry and get it all out. Thank you my beautiful girl. 💛💛

Then 2 of the staff knocked at my door offering to clean my shoes and bag for me and they bought me some tiger balm for my back, which was aching a little. Their kindness set me off again! 

Thank you also to my Gorgeous Rebecca for calling and letting me vent again! 💛💛

Cambodias recent history is tragic and brutal, but as a people and a nation they are beautiful. They are working so hard to move forward in a peaceful, respectful way.

I was pretty tired so I walked just a few minutes down the road for dinner, to a rather fancy French Restaurant. I ended up having Steak & Frites with delicious butter sauce and a glass of wine! I can’t remember the last time I had a Steak or Wine for that matter! 

I think I needed it after such an emotional day.

Today’s plans were to have a much lighter day. So I took a walk to the Royal Palace which is about 15, 20 mins away. I was wearing a dress with no sleeves but had my scarf with me to cover up. 

I was hassled a little by one particular Tuk Tuk driver, who just wouldn’t accept that I didn’t need him, then unfortunately my scarf was not an acceptable cover up at the Palace, I could have purchased a hideous T-shirt to wear but TBH I was hot and bit over everything by this point. I decided to give up and come another day when I’m wearing acceptable attire.

It’s a fairly short walk to the National Museum which was next in my list. Again I got hassled by the same Tuk Tuk driver, who eventually gave up. Then another guy came over asked where I was going then informed me it was a Buddhist holy day and I wouldn’t be able to get into the museum until 2pm and I’d need to be covered up. Well, I had literally just googled the dress code, so knew that was rubbish and the Buddhist holy day was also total bullshit, I got scammed with this one on my first visit to Bangkok! I told him he was talking bollocks and he left me alone. 

The museum is fantastic, small but with so many wonderful artefacts from the Khmer Empire. It’s also in a lovely cool building! 

I had a good wander and sat in the garden for a bit. 

Then I walked back to my hotel via a nice little coffee shop and had a delicious, sweet, iced caramel latte, which I desperately needed! 

The temperature here is around 33 degrees but with the humidity the forecast says it feels like 40 degrees! I can confirm it really bloody does! 🥵🥵

I spent the rest of the afternoon chilling by the pool after a lovely catch up with Tracy. She had visited Cambodia in February so could completely relate to how I had been feeling. Thank you darling. ❤️

I went for a stroll in the evening, it definitely felt cooler. I found a nearby Rooftop bar, small but pleasant and had a drink then grabbed my staple, Vegetable Rice before heading back. On the way I treated myself to a Magnum Ice Cream, that reminded me of last year’s trip and my time in Koh Lanta with the fabulous Anita! Who I’m looking forward to seeing in Australia in December. 😘👍❤️

I’m here in Phnom Penh for another day or so. I think I’m going to take it easy. My back is actually a little sore today!

Have a great week everyone.

Georgia have a fabulous time at Ciderfest! 👍❤️👍❤️

💚💛❤️🩵🩷

Books read.

The last Devil to Die, book 4 of the Thursday Murder Club. Richard Osman. 

Absolutely fabulous, but emotional. He writes these books so well they make me laugh out loud and this one made me cry! 

Saturday 7th – Monday 9th September 2024

My lovely Mr Rattana collected me in the morning to take me to the bus station. We left after our group photograph! 

The coach was great, very similar to the one I arrived in Cambodia on. Air con, reclining seats, free water! 

The drive out of Siem Reap was interesting. We traveled on a long major road out of town lined on one side with lots of very large very ornate Hotels most of which looked empty. I know that Cambodia and places like Siem Reap have not yet recovered from the huge impact of COVID and tourism is down quite a bit. Apparently all these hotels used to thrive. I think people have started to return to places like Thailand but not to Cambodia. Steps are being taken to try and encourage more Cambodians to travel around their own country and visit these places. It is so sad to see how devastating Lockdown was on these countries. 

We stopped on route for a loo break, interestingly we had just passed a large, modern Petrol station and comfort stop, so I assumed we would stop in around 30 mins. But, no, we stopped just down the road at a local store. Which was ok but the owner was selling clothes, trinkets and food and drink. She said to me “You buy something” this was phrased not as a question but a demand! So I reluctantly bought a packet of peanut brittle 😂 I hope my teeth survive! 

As we boarded the bus one of the passengers came and started chatting, her English was excellent and she was heading back to her home in Battenbang ( pronounced BattenBong) She was lovely. We agreed to chat some more when we arrived.

Battenbang is a city but it was not quite what I expected. It seems a little rustic and rundown. 

When the bus arrived at the station, before we even stopped we were surrounded by Tuk Tuk drivers touting for business. I opted for a gentleman who had a kind face(he could be a serial killer for all I know but he seemed nice! 😄) 

The lady I’d met, Thida, and I had a chat and agreed to meet a little later for coffee so she could tell me about Battenbang. 

My Driver, SumNita duly took me to my hotel which was just across the river and we then arranged for him to take me in a day tour the following day. 

My hotel is very large and very ornate inside, lots of fancy wood carving and a beautiful staircase. My room is fine, clean and a reasonable size. 

The hotel weren’t able to change any of my large $ notes, which I’ll need to pay for tomorrows trip and also to pay for any other small items. So I set out to find a currency change place. I eventually found one, after a pretty long hot walk through what appears to be a deserted city! Unfortunately they would only change 1 $50 note. But it’s better than nothing. By now I am dripping with sweat and in need of an iced coffee. Not that easy to find a coffee shop in an unfamiliar place that looks deserted! I knew I’d seen one back by the hotel so I walked back to find it. I had arranged to meet with Thida at 3pm and it was around 2 so I sent a WhatsApp message to meet at the coffee shop. 

Thida is lovely, she is from Battenbang but has worked all over Cambodia with an international group researching Malaria treatments, funded by the Bill Gates Foundation, it sounded fascinating and really helpful. 

The idea is to work with families and communities to encourage them to stick with any treatment plans for Malaria. They often don’t do this as they return to work before treatment finishes. The project helped to fund them during treatment and then show them the long term benefits of this. Preventing resistant strains developing. They worked to educate the rural communities on other things that would help limit the Impact of malaria. 

We headed out of the coffee shop around 4pm and the area around us was a large park by the river. It was starting to get busy as local people came out in the cooler air to exercise, walking, jogging, playing and generally having a good time! It was fab! 

It was such an unexpected pleasure to meet and get to know Thida. I think we are going to meet up again before I leave. 

My hotel is quite large and has around 10 floors the top one being a restaurant and bar. I headed there after saying goodbye to Thida and it was so wonderfully breezy! 😍 I grabbed  beer then had a good catch up with my Rebecca. 

I opted to go out for dinner to a pace that Adam in Siem Reap had recommended called, Jaan Bai, It was a lovely little independent restaurant that works to employ and up-skill local people. My food was yummy! Sadly it was very quiet. 

I thought I’d get a good nights sleep after a long hot day. My bed was a little a hard and the room a little warm, the aircon isn’t the best. But I eventually fell asleep only to be woken at 5am by music, tinny, plinky, plonky music reminiscent of an Ice Cream van. 

I managed to ignore it but then at 7am a bloody siren started going off! Initially I was unsure what it meant, a warning ⚠️ ‼️ possibly. I googled it and apparently it goes off every day to remind residents to pay their respects to the nation!! The siren is located on top of a water tower which is around 100 meters from my window….Great. 😳

Breakfast was buffet style, but I had a busy day ahead so opted for good old English Tea & Toast! 😍

SumNita (pronounced Sumnip) arrived on time and we set off to our first stop, The Bamboo Train. This is tucked away outside of the city and it was a fascinating drive to get there. We went through a few villages past local markets and then a short ride along the motorway 😳😬 Having first crossed both carriageways! The speed limit is 80 we were doing around 10! Scary. 

The Bamboo Train is a popular attraction. It is essentially a Bamboo platform that is assembled on the tracks then you trundle along around 20 – 25kph from one village to the next! 

When we arrived at the tracks and parked in the metal shed, the guys come out and put the Bamboo platform together, it looks simple but the pieces look very heavy! 

There was some debate about me joining a couple of other guys on their platform but in the end I had one all to myself! 

Whilst it was being put together I ended up buying a few handwoven bracelets from a small child! 

It actually feels quite fast, and as I was on my own we were going faster than the others and soon caught up. As you pass all the rice fields there are so many different birds, ones I’ve not seen. 

It is really good fun, and I’m happy I did it, as I had contemplated not bothering.

When you arrive at the next village you are greeted by local people trying to sell their wares. 

I really didn’t need anything else, but now have another couple of handwoven bracelets! 🤦‍♀️😂

The guys disassemble the platform, turn it round and we trundle back!

A Weird witchy thing happened, on the way back, tbh this sort of thing happens to me on a regular basis. I was just pondering if Cambodia has many Raptors 🦅 as I hadn’t seen any when not 30 seconds later I look up and there are 2 hovering above me! 😍😳

All in all a really fun experience. SunNita and I then meandered through more villages and made our way to a village near the river. 

The river that runs through Battambang is the Sangker River. As it’s the rainy season it is quite high, but SunNita assures me it will rise at least another 10 feet by December! 

The village was also where we visited a traditional Khmer House that is now a museum. It’s built with various woods, some hardwood for the outside and some different wood inside. I was shown round by a lady whose family had built and owned the house. During the Khmer Rouge’s rule they commandeered the house and it was used as a communal Kitchin and feeding station. Over 200 people a day would be served a watery soup or tiny portions of rice. The family that owned the house were fairly wealthy and were also intellectuals, Lawyers, teachers etc. This made them prime targets for the Khmer Rouge and they lost over 100 members from one family group. 

After this visit I went back to the hotel for a short break and a refreshing swim. 

The evenings entertainment was to visit the Bat Caves that are again outside of Battenbang. 

On the drive there we drove past lots of stalls selling barbecue meat SunNita stopped at one of the stalls and asked if I’d like to try a local favourite, Barbecued Rat!! 🐀 They catch the rats in the rice fields and they were pretty big. I was told that they taste just like chicken. I decided to give it a miss! 

The Bat caves are in a mountain/hill that also has a large Buddhist Temple on top. Also this is another sad Khmer Rouge spot, The Killing Cave. There is a cave at the top of the mountain and the Khmer Rouge Soldiers threw people into it. They executed over 9000 people at this site. 

In order to visit the temple and the Killing Cave you can either walk up or have a driver with a 4 x 4 due to how steep it is. No surprise to say I opted for a driver 😍

It really was very steep in parts and lots of steps once you arrive. 

I found the Killing Cave very difficult, I think in part because there were a few local children running around inside playing and outside are lots of people selling stuff which just felt wrong to me at a site where so many people lost their lives. 

The views were incredible and the temple was impressive, especially having been built so high up! 

Once back down we had a little wait for the Bats to make an appearance, over 9 million of them stream out of the Cave every evening. There is a pretty large crowd today as it’s Sunday, so lots of locals and only a handful of tourists.

SunNita and I find a spot, grab a beer and settle in to wait. I used the time to have a long overdue catch up with the lovely Jenna! ❤️

SunNita treated himself to another local delicacy, baby duck. This is exactly what it says. They boil a duck egg with a fully formed baby inside then serve it with a lemon & pepper sauce. They eat the whole thing, feathers, everything! It looked hideous 🤢 I will put a photo in, so be prepared! 

Finally at around 6.40 the Bats flood out! Wow! It’s incredible. 

SunNita says that in the dry season it’s even more impressive. It takes approximately 40 – 60 mins for them all to leave! 

We head back to Battenbang on a pretty busy road, in the dark. Scary enough in a Tuk Tuk but we are passed on a regular basis by families on scooters. By that I mean whole families. 

Imagine you decide you need something from Tesco Express one evening or you want to visit a family friend, so you, your husband, your 5 year old, your 18 month old and let’s not forget Trixy the Dog all climb onto your 50cc moped and head off down the A1/A30!! Insane 😳🤣🤣

I arrived back, hot, sweaty and very dusty. I grabbed a quick beer and some fried rice in the Hotel had another lovely catch up with my Grantley. Then showered and tried to sleep 🛌. 

Unfortunately I didn’t sleep well again, noise, hot, uncomfortable bed. Finally I dropped off around 1 – 2 am to be woken again with the godawful bloody Plinky Plonky music at 5! It’s so fucking irritating 😠 and I can’t get back to sleep. 

I admit to feeling a tad grouchy! 

SunNita and I are due to do a few things this morning, temples etc. when he arrives I say I’d like to do a small tour and be back at the hotel by 12.- 1pm. He says thats fine. I end up paying what we’d agreed, so he’s happy. 

Once again we travel out through all the villages. So much going on. One curious thing is the number of barbers there are! Just random barbers chairs in sheds along the road. Most of the boys/men you see have smart haircuts, short and not a bloody Mullet in sight thank God! 🤣 

There are also lots of stalls selling petrol in reusable old bottles, these are everywhere.

We visit a place that makes a popular Cambodian breakfast, Bamboo Sticky Rice. I bought a couple to try. SunNita loves his. Me, not so much. It’s sticky and a mix of sweet & salty with black beans in. I can see why it’s popular but must be an acquired taste. 

We also visit a small place that makes rice paper for spring rolls. Wow! So many processes, all done by hand the traditional way. 

We then visit another Temple 🛕 but by now I’m really hot, tired and still feeling grouchy! 😬

I get SunNita to take me back to the hotel where I have a large iced caramel latte and a cooling swim, chat to some friendly Australian women in the pool, read and try to relax. 

I had arranged to meet Thida again at 4.30 but was tempted to cancel as I was still a little grumpy but I didn’t. For which I’m so glad. We met and had another nice walk by the river, then sat watching all the locals taking their exercise in the park. So much going on, it had such a great community vibe. I watched an old lady walking barefoot on a large pebbled  surface, apparently it’s supposed to be good for your pressure points….i gave it a go! Fuck! It’s so hard and so painful! Respect to the lady! 

Thida and I had such an interesting chat about all manner of things, Religion, architecture, politics, covid, communism, capitalism, geo politics, racism, white saviours, Brexit. 

Totally fascinating getting her perspective on all of these issues. 

It made me laugh when she asked about leaving Europe and said that her father, herself and a lot of Cambodians thought we’d lost our collective minds leaving Europe! I agreed! 

It’s been such a pleasure meeting Thida and getting to know her. 

I had dinner back at the hotel as I’m too tired to go anywhere else. I tried the local curry Amok., Delicious 😋 

Battenbang has been interesting, not exactly what I imagined but definitely worth visiting. 

Something that Cambodia has in common with the UK right now is the current trend in women’s fashion seems to be Lounge Wear! Colourful, slinky Pyjamas!! 😍❤️🩷🩵💚

I’m up early tomorrow, not just with the plinky plonk Temple music but to get a bus @ 7.30 to Phnom Penh! 

I hope I can sleep, I’m absolutely bloody knackered 💤 🥱😴

Books Read

The Twenty Three, Linwood Barclay. Part of a trilogy. Enjoyable.

That’s it guys. 

Have a great week.

Hugs to you all. ❤️💚🩷🩵

I have a video of the Bats but I can’t seem to upload it! I’ll try next time.

Wednesday 4th – Friday 6th September 2024

After my full on Temple day and then a couple of cocktails yesterday I woke up initially feeling fine then developed a Migraine which started with visual disturbance, flashing, squiggly lines and then a headache 🤕 I haven’t had one of these for years. I’m lucky, as a couple of painkillers sort out the headache and the visual aura fades after about 30 mins. I put it down to a lack of sleep, the heat and a my first proper cocktails for a while!! 

I am going to try and be more mindful about drinking plenty of water. 

I had a nice slow morning. Breakfast is included in my stay at the hotel and it’s always very pleasant. Very chilled, quiet and my scrambled eggs always come out in a 💛 Shape! 😍

We had some pretty heavy rain, which is kind of helpful as it means you can’t do lots so don’t feel bad lolling about!! I opted to do some laundry! The hotel offers a laundry service but it’s really expensive, they charge per item. I usually just find a laundrette and do it myself, but I haven’t seen one, so I’m hand washing everything….Joy! 

Once the rain stops I go out for a little wander. It’s lovely and shady walking along the river and I follow it down towards the Royal Palace and gardens. Someone tells me the palace is open, but buggered if I can find the entrance!! 

I continue my meandering and walk to the Made in Cambodia Market. This is a small collection of artisan makers selling all sorts of gorgeous things. Homemade jams, Cambodian alcohol, jewellery, art, ceramics, clothing, beauty products. Everything looks incredible and it’s all made in Cambodia by Cambodians. The difficulty for me is that this is the off season and everywhere is really slow, I’m the only visitor at the market so everyone wants you to buy their wares! I would love to be supportive but I simply don’t have the capacity or need anymore stuff! 

Although I somehow leave with a small bag full of various lip balms!! 🤦‍♀️😄

Apparently September and October are the quietest months for tourism in Cambodia. I guess all the school holidays are over in lots of countries and it’s the rainy season! The advantage for me is that places like Angkor Wat are not crawling with people the disadvantage is that hotels, cafes and restaurants are very quiet, so less interaction for me! Also when I’m out and about I get asked constantly if I need a Tuk Tuk, I’ve found that if you smile and say No Thank You politely in Cambodian everyone is cool! Politeness and smiles go a long way here. These guys are simply trying to make a living. 

It’s another early night for me as I’m up again at 5am for my last Temple visit. 🛕 

The lovely Mr Rattana is ready and waiting at 5.45 and we head off. Driving through Siem Reap a little later is interesting, it’s surprisingly busy! 

Over near the Royal Palace there is a large open space filled with people doing aerobics and other fitness classes. They also have a large selection of fitness equipment, like the stuff we sometimes have in parks, which is also really busy, there are loads of joggers and even more cyclists 🚴‍♂️. I think the Angkor Watt Park area is great for bikes, it’s flat, shady and the roads are well maintained! 

I have to say that the sunrise this morning is stunning, it would have been spectacular at Angkor Watt! Not cloudy as it was when I was there. 

I have decided that I’d like to revisit the temples around Angkor Thom in particular Baphuon, 

We arrive at the temples by 6.15 and there isn’t soul around! Everyone is still at Angkor Wat watching the sunrise! 🌅 

I honestly can’t adequately explain how magical and wonderful it is to be walking amongst ancient ruins at sunrise with just nature for company. 

The sun casts a beautiful golden light onto the temples and the rays of sunlight through the trees reflect on the intricate spiders webs and dew that sparkles on everything. 

It is breathtakingly beautiful. 

The spiders webs are everywhere, some much larger than others and they are also spread across must of the doorways I need to go through! 🕷️ 🕸️ 

I come across one web which is incredible. I’ll post a picture. The large X in the centre has been weaved by the spider itself, amazing. 

I’m so glad I came back to this Temple as I’m able to explore large parts I didn’t see on Sunday. 

The carvings around the Elephant Terrace are superb. 

The most memorable thing is simply being there, alone, soaking in the atmosphere, the sights the smells, everywhere smells beautiful, woody and fresh. 

Whilst the clear skies and bright sunshine are great first thing in the morning, I’m also glad that it was cloudy on Sunday for my visit as by 8am  it’s bloody boiling 🥵 

Mr Rattana and I take a slow drive back through the complex, stopping to take pictures along the way. I asked him to stop when I spotted a huge Spider sitting in the middle of its web. (I’m sure he thought I was mad!) I have been reliably informed by my beautiful Georgia that it’s a Giant Orb Spider, huge but harmless. 

A fabulous morning, one that I shall remember and cherish forever.

The rest of the day was spent swimming, walking, drinking iced coffee and relaxing! 😌 

I did go out in the evening for something to eat. I’d found a place that did falafels, which I really fancied. Memories of the Falafel place in Chaing Mai spurred me on. 

I jumped in a Tuk Tuk even though it wasn’t very far. I showed the driver where it was on the map, he nodded said OK and off we went. It should have taken 3-4mins to get there. I knew he had gone the wrong way almost immediately, but thought he might know more than me, apparently not! After stopping and checking my map 3 times. We eventually arrived 25 mins later!! 😂

Sadly the food wasn’t great either, the lady running the cafe was lovely, but the falafel just tasted wrong, no hummus or tahini but lots of sweet chilli! I eat it, as I was very hungry but was a little disappointed.

A nice bowl of coconut sorbet back at the hotel cheered me up! 😍

My last day in Siem Real was spent, packing organising and having a last wander around. 

Siem Reap has absolutely blown me away and has far exceeded my expectations. If you are thinking of having a holiday in Thailand or Bali, have a rethink and come to Cambodia instead! It has so much to offer. There are beaches as well as awesome historic monuments! 

I was sad to be leaveing my beautiful hotel and all the amazing staff. Everyone has been so kind, attentive and helpful. Mr John the manager made us have a group photo before I left! 😍

Another day another bus! 

When I googled buses to Battenbang the site I often use ,12go, came up with a selection of small minibuses, they are ok but not the most comfortable or a private taxi which is expensive. I was chatting to one of the staff and they said about another company VET, this is a Cambodian company with a large selection of routes a couple of nice big coach’s and a good price! So that’s me sorted. 

Next stop Battenbang!! 

Books Read.

Die of Shame. Mark Billingham. I liked this, the Author writes the DITom Thorne books and he puts in an appearance right at the end! 

Have a fabulous weekend beautiful people.

💚💙🩵❤️🧡💛

Monday 2nd September – Tuesday 3rd September 2024

After my epic Temple visit on Sunday, on my return I did treat myself to a rather fabulous foot and leg massage here at the hotel. It was amazing and miraculously stopped my feet from hurting. I’m sure that’s why I had such I good nights sleep. 💤 

I also realised after posting my blog that I hadn’t put the website in for Tamara the artist. I did go back and edit the post but not sure that worked, so here it is:

http://www.tamaravenn.com

Let me apologise here for the length of this blog! So much to tell you! So many amazing things to report! 😍❤️

For my non temple day I opted to visit the small Killing Fields Museum and then to visit a Gallery that Tamara recommended. 

The lovely Mr Rattana was my driver for the morning. 👍

The Killing Fields Museum is housed within a Buddhist temple complex. It was a very sombre and moving experience. 

Here is a very brief history of Cambodia since WW2.

The Japanese left Cambodia at the end of WW2, the King, Norodom Sihanouk, proclaimed the Kingdom of Kampuchea. The French, the colonial rulers agreed to hand over power in 1953.

During the Vietnam War the (1955-1975) the North Vietnamese Army had bases over the border in Cambodia. US forces bombed them heavily in 1969. The king objected to the bombing, wanting to stay neutral. During this time forces were building in opposition to the king, led by the Communist Party of Kampuchea, King Sihanouk called them the Khmer Rouge. 

In 1966 General Lon Nol was elected and formed a new right-wing government, neither the government or the army were happy with the Kings rule. 

General Lon Nol led a military coup in 1970 and ousted Sihanouk. This ended the monarchy and the country was renamed the Khmer Republic. They told the North Vietnamese Army (NVA) to leave Cambodia.

The army under General Lol Non were helped by the US, this was extremely unpopular with both the NVA & the Khmer Rouge, who attacked the new regime. 

The NVA were successful in taking over large parts of Cambodia east of Phnom Penh, they then gave this territory to the Khmer Rouge. The US retaliated with increased bombing in Cambodia.

The Khmer Rouge were gradually gaining strength and taking more territory, the elected government were only able to hold onto power in the larger cities.

In 1975 the Khmer Rouge conquered Phnom Penh. They installed their own government under the leadership of Pol Pot, real name Saloth Sar. Pol Pot means Original Cambodian. 

The Khmer Rouge era lasted from 1975 – 1979. The Khmer Rouges extreme communist ideals forced millions of urban dwellers out into the rural areas to work in the rice fields and on collective farms. During this period Cambodias professional and Technical classes were exterminated, and Pol Pots  brutal social & agricultural policies resulted in the torture and deaths from starvation of up to 2 million Cambodians. 

In 1979 Vietnamese forces, who had broken with the Khmer Rouge soon after their victory in 1975, invaded and took over the country. They established the People’s Republic of Kampuchea. 

The Khmer Rouge retreated but kept fighting with other resistance groups. This Civil War continued for many years and led to many more deaths and displaced huge numbers of Cambodians. 

A peace settlement was signed in 1991 but the last Khmer Rouge fighters didn’t surrender until 1998. 

OK, sorry for the history lesson, but I feel it’s important to understand the country’s recent history. It also helps me to understand what happened. 

I feel the devastating results of these conflicts will be bought home much more when I’m in Phnom Penh.

Feeling very sad I left the museum to visit the gallery called Theam’s Gallery.  

The gallery showcases the work of a Master Artist, Lim Muy Theam. 

Theam’s work and his teaching embodies forgiveness, reconciliation, integration and community. He has worked hard to restore Cambodian culture in old and new ways. 

The gallery was beyond anything I had imagined. It’s a completely immersive experience. There are so many different sorts of art and ancient crafts on display in a series of beautiful rooms and courtyards. Every where you look there is something beautiful to see, feel, smell, hear. 

The whole place is lush and green, there are fish, birds, butterflies and lots of cats everywhere! Built over a large pond are a group of mini houses, which look great but I then realised they are for the cats!! 

It was stunning and the perfect place to visit after the museum, showing there is still beauty and hope in the world. 

If I have time I will definitely return, I’m sure I didn’t see everything and I just loved the calm, peaceful atmosphere. 

http://www.theamsgallery.com

After the wonderful Theam’s experience Mr Rattana dropped me off in town, where I grabbed a delicious coffee back at Little Red Fox, and had a good catch up with my gorgeous Georgia. ❤️❤️

Oh and I also bought myself a fab silver & Labradorite ring. 🥰 I’d seen some beautiful bracelets in a a crystal shop in Bangkok, but the colours weren’t right. This ring was in a fabulous little independent shop, everything is made in Cambodia, and the price was really good. Labradorite is considered to be a powerful protector. (handy 😍)

In the evening I visited a great little Cafè/restaurant called, Wild. Wild specialise in Spring Rolls, one of my favourites. It was a cute little place, my chicken spring rolls and Mojito were very tasty! 

My second day visiting temples started at a much more civilised time of 10am 😄 The plan for today was to visit 6 temples and watch the sunset at the last one. 

We set off for our fist stop, Praset Preah Khan. This is quite a big temple and I was lucky enough to find a very helpful security guard who gave me lots of info and also showed me some of the statues which I would have missed. This temple also had rooms that would have held statues with precious stones lighting up the room. There was also rooms that act as echo chambers, if you stand with your back against the wall, breathe in then thump your upper chest it vibrates and echos, which you can hear and feel! Very clever. Although I’m not quite sure what the purpose was! 

I saw statues of the kings 2 wives, his first wife died and she asked the king to marry her older sister which he did. The 2nd wife started a university within the temple in the building that housed the kings sacred sword, impressive. There was a statue of the queen holding a mirror and apparently applying lipstick!! It definitely felt like these Queens were powerful and important within the culture. 

This temple was also alive with so many butterflies!! 🦋 

The next Temple, Neak Prean, was very small but impressive because it was built on an island surrounded by a huge mand made lake! 

I loved walking across the lake and seeing all the beautiful lotus flowers. 

I also saw a massive spider and some tiny colourful birds. 

We then visited another couple of smallish temples that were tucked away inside the jungle. 

After this it was a long, 25k ride to the next temple, Banteay Srey or the Pink Temple. 

The route to this temple took us through real rural parts of the area, well away from the tourists sites. It was brilliant. Just driving past rural traditional places. 

There were people living their lives, sleeping in hammocks, feeding chickens, children playing, stalls selling various fruits and vegetables, chickens, cows, water buffalo and dogs everywhere! Paddy fields stretching across the landscape in the most incredible vivid green. 💚

This temple felt very different to the others I’d seen. I think because it was a completely different colour, red stone and red earth. It was also in a clearing, not right up against the jungle. The details on the carvings were fabulous. It wasn’t very big, and it was along way to come to see it, but definitely worth it! 🧡❤️

After this we stopped for a much needed drink and some food. I wasn’t especially hungry but I was thirsty and needed something sugary. I ended up having my usual, vegetable fried rice and an ice cold Fanta! 

When I came out of the restaurant it had started to rain pretty heavily. 

This isn’t an issue for me, as I’m under cover but Mr Rattana would have got soaked. We had a chat and I said I was happy to sit and chill in the Tuk Tuk and read, while he continued his rest in a very comfy looking hammock!! 😍❤️ The rain got really heavy for around 45mins then stopped and off we went. 

The last Temple of the day was, Pre Roup or the Sunset Temple. We had arrived around 5 and sunset was at 6.15. 

Mr Rattana explained that to get to the top there were some wooden stairs round to the right side, which might be better for me to use. I’m so grateful he told me this. I walked round to the side and yes there were the stairs, quite steep but wooden with a handrail. I climbed to the top and the views were fantastic. The most amazing thing is that there are other temples in the jungle surrounding us but you can’t see them at all! 

As I walked around I saw the stairs I could have used 😳 Stone, differing heights, really steep and no rail! As I looked at them it gave me a real tummy turning moment and then set off my acrophobia!! I began to feel anxious about being up here and the thought of being up here at sunset with lots more people and then trying to get down when it’s dark was too much! I decided that as lovely as it may have been (and TBF, the guard said the sunset was likely to be a non event due to cloud) I would rather end my day on a positive note rather than by tumbling down a vertical flight of stairs!! 😳😂 As I descended said stairs I realised I had made the correct choice, doing this in the dark would have been horrid.

All in all it was another incredible day. 

I adore being around the temples. The peace and quiet, the greenery, the butterflies. It makes me feel incredibly privileged to be able to experience such beauty and tranquility. 

After getting back to the hotel I showered then went to visit another recommendation, Miss Wongs Cocktail Bar! 

Wow! It is stunning and the cocktails were first class! I chose a special which was cherry based (my absolute favourite) it had smoke in which was added at the table! Very theatrical ❤️

If you’re ever in Siem Reap, I highly recommend having a cocktail here. 

That’s it for today!! 

Have a great day guys.

Love & miss everyone

Books read

From the Cradle. Louise Voss & Mark Edwards. A thriller. It was OK.

In a dark dark wood. Ruth Ware. Ok, a little predictable. 

Friday 30th August – Sunday 1st September 2024

After my fun packed day of cashpoints and SIM cards I decided to go out for dinner, and also to have a celebratory Margarita or cocktail in honour of my friend Stretch’s good news! 

I ended up getting a Tuk Tuk and I asked them to drop me at a restaurant that I’d seen recommended, a small local one. 

It was still early so the place was empty, I opted to go for a drink first then come back. Rather handily there was a Mexican Tequila place across the road! 😍

It looked fab so I took a seat and ordered a Margarita on the rocks not frozen, as I was ordering I got chatting to the manager, a great guy called Adam from Australia. He said that the drinks were quite sweet so I ordered mine with 1/2 sugar syrup, it was absolutely amazing!! 😋 it also came with a little snack sized chips and dip!! 

Adam and I chatted some more and he has given me some brilliant ideas for places to see in Phnom Penh and Siem Reap. He and his ex also own a coffee shop in town, which I promised to visit. I ended up having another Margarita and to be honest could have easily had a third, but I was sensible and left to go back to the restaurant for some dinner, I was already feeling the effects of the drinks 😜 I’ve become a bit of a lightweight! 

Dinner was good, I sat up on the 2nd floor, which had a view and a refreshing breeze, it did however require climbing an almost vertical staircase (so glad I didn’t have a 3rd Margarita! 😳) 

For my first full day of exploring I am going to visit the Museum and also a place called APOPO. This had been recommended by Tracey & Jaques and also by Adam last night. 

So, APOPO is an organisation that is working in Cambodia and other places around the world to clear land mines and other un exploded ordnance. The fantastic thing about APOPO is that they use specially trained Hero Rats to detect the mines! 

It is a simply fantastic organisation. I found the tour, talk and demonstration incredibly interesting and moving. 

There are believed to be approximately 6 million land mines and unexploded ordnance in Cambodia. These have been left by the Khmer Rouge and others during the civil war. There is also unexploded ordnance dropped by the USA during the Vietnam war. They kill or injure significant numbers of people especially children. 

The Rats, which are African pouched rats from Tanzania, have an incredible sense of smell and are light enough not to set of the mines. They are trained and then used to detect the mines, which are then dug up and deactivated. Using the Hero Rats means that larger areas can be checked and made safe much more quickly. 

I’ll pop in a photo of the what they have achieved for just the last year. It’s incredible. 

We also got to hold the rats, which were huge but very cute, unfortunately the pic of me holding the rat is hideous, so I’m not sharing! 

I’m also going to pop in my blog a QR code, which takes you to the website, and if anyone would like to donate a few quid, that would be awesome, if not it’s a great way to find out more about this awesome organisation. ❤️❤️

After this fabulous start my next stop was the Angkor National Museum. The museum was really good, once I got to grips with the audio equipment! 😁

The museum was useful to find out more about the history before my visit to the Temples. 

From the museum I had a nice walk back along the river, dodging the torrential downpour! And not killing my self on the slippery bloody pavement! 

I stopped on the way at the Adam’s Coffee Shop, Little Red Fox. It had such a great vibe. It’s in a little street of independent shops called, Kandall Village. 

I also visited a stunning new gallery opened a week ago by a British artist called, Tamara. She was super friendly and helpful giving me more tips on places to visit while I’m here. Her work is stunning. 

If you’re in Siem Reap check her out. Her website is: http://www.tamaravenn.com

The rest of my day was spent chilling by the pool in the shade and getting an early night ready for my 5am departure to watch the sunrise at Angkor Watt! 

I managed to get a pretty decent nights sleep and was up and ready to go at 4.45. 

Mr Rattana, my lovely Tuk Tuk driver was waiting and we set off through the dark empty streets of Siem Reap. 

I arrived at Angkor Watt in darkness, it was busy but not rammed. I needed my torch app to see where I was going! 

Cory & Charlotte had said to not go down by the lake, go instead to the 2nd point, which I did. Such a great idea, far less people. 

It is incredibly atmospheric walking towards the Temple, which you can just see outlined against the sky, then slowly it appears from the darkness, Wow! I’m afraid my pics don’t do it justice. We weren’t lucky enough to get a red sunrise, but it was till fabulous. 

Being at the 2nd point also meant that we were the first people to enter the Temple. This meant that it was empty, quiet and peaceful. I was leaving as it was starting to get busier. 

It’s difficult to put into words how magnificent these Temples and the whole Angkor Archeological complex is. It covers an area of over 400 km2 including forested area. It holds the remains of the different capitals of the Khmer Empire from the 9th – 15th century. 

I left Angkor Watt and met back up with Mr Rattana and a welcome cold water! We then made our way to Angkor Thom and Bayon Temple. It was still only 7am.

Bayon Temple looks stunning and it was almost empty of visitors. This temple was a little different and involved a lot of stairs, which is not a huge issue but it was hot work! There were also a few monkeys around, I had a little panic when one grabbed hold of my trouser leg, I simply continued walking and he eventually let go!🐒🙊

I bumped into the guy I’d been chatting with on the bus from Bangkok, Lucas, from Chile. It was lovely and strange seeing someone you recognise! 😁

After Bayon I visited the Temples nearby, my favourite being Baphuon, it was incredibly peaceful. 

I adored this section. It was a little more shady, again super quiet. I was simply wandering around stunning ancient monuments surrounded by greenery and so many beautiful butterflies of all colours and sizes, birds, crickets. It was truly magical. 

My feet were starting to ache a little, but I had another Temple to visit first. 

This was the incredible, Ta Phrom or The Tomb Raider Temple. 

This Temple complex was different again, not as many steps and more broken. The surrounding jungle has tried to devour it, roots of strangler figs, kapok and banyan trees are everywhere. It makes it very otherworldly. 

There was one small section, a tall square kind of room with a plinth that used to house a statue of a female, the surrounding walls were full of holes which I heard a guide explaining would have been filled with gold, silver, bronze and precious stones so that when the sun shone down through the open roof it would be colourful & dazzling! Like an an ancient disco ball 🪩! How fabulous. ❤️❤️

Ta Phrom was beautiful and once away from the growing number of people, still peaceful. 

After Ta Phrom Mr Rattana and I took a leisurely drive back to Siem Reap, stopping on the way for a much needed iced caramel macchiato and a cinnamon bun!! 

I arrived back at the hotel at 10.30 am. I had visited 5/6 temple sites and walked just under 10 miles! No wonder my feet were aching. 😳😍

I have a 3 day pass for Angkor Watt, my next visit will be on Tuesday when I’ll be visiting some of the sites a bit further out, then catching the sunset at one of the Temples, the name of which escapes me right now. 

Tomorrow I’ll be having a little rest but visiting other fun or interesting places in Siem Reap. 

For now, that’s it from me. 

I’ll try not to overload you with Temple pics!! 😂

No new books, I’m still reading the next one. 

Have a great week everyone, good luck to all those heading back to School!! 😘❤️